Friday, June 27, 2008

Personal Skills Help You to Be Optimistic

Being Optimistic is always about developing personal skills to respond to hard situations you may face.

BE OPTIMISTIC is always better than to be pessimistic.

This is a "How to Be Optimistic" lesson one of my friends told us last Saturday night while we were in a party with our friends.

He actually answered when I asked my friends this question by saying: "Being Optimistic is not that impossible. I always get through some difficult situations, which are actually facing me because of some regulations in my resettlement."

My friend's answer goes like this, "Once more again, I solved some challenges in my way to continue an offline project. The project is one of many outcomes I am working to fulfil out of more than thirty years experiences. It is running with my warm blood and making me feel that I am burning myself like the Phoenix to survive.

The blind regulations just say I should get a normal job while I am working with some institutions like you to achieve this project. I coordinated with some leaders in my network to explain to the executives who are responsible of the implementation of the new regulations, that the project is important as the only option to fulfil these regulations by other means.

The first time I did that, I got my welfare banned for three months. I have never faced that very bad situation in my life, even while I was hiding from the security agents of the dictatorial regimes in my homeland.

I thought about this question before and struggled to be optimistic too in those hard conditions. I could not sleep so easy. My head was full of many bad thoughts. I thought of getting there to my local administration and shout on their faces like a mad man.

However, I again took it easy and said to myself, I had always been very rationale, so why should I get mad because they deny me my welfare?

My teenager son said to me one day "Baba, break-off this stone from your heart and you'll feel better!"

I told myself I should be optimistic and I should keep myself rationale to win over this kind of misunderstanding to my qualifications and expertise. Luckily, I found here somebody who knows how the procedures work to help me write a plea against the executives who stopped my welfare. I won the case, and found that being optimistic is always good to stop you from burning your brain."

Therefore, how to be optimistic is the right question to ask those who have been in troubles." I took my friend's note about "how to be optimistic" to carry on this mission and find more accurate answers to this question.

Therefore, if you are wondering about how to be more optimistic and have got some key-points to come and boil them into this discussion keep them rolling here. Use the following comment form.